Where to start
Your life didn't unfold the way you imagined. Now what?
What you thought you were building has changed. There’s still so much ahead of you, and with God’s grace and good support, you don’t have to figure out what comes next alone.
Who Is This For
You might be here because…..
There’s a space between what was and what’s next, and you’re in the middle of it.
You don’t know anyone in the Church who’s walked this exact road, and you feel like no one quite understands.
Your divorce is final, and now you’re facing what an annulment could mean for you, your children and your future.
You’re waiting on a judge or a tribunal to decide what’s next, and you’re wrestling with the uncertainty of the unknown.
You’re not free to date yet, but are aching for companionship because you’re tired of being alone.
You’ve realized the longing for marriage is still in you, and you’ve opened your heart to someone new quietly hoping this could lead to a fulfilling, sacramental marriage.
Wherever you are, you want more than simply getting through this season. You want clarity about what's next and peace with what you can't control. You want to make decisions with confidence and stay rooted in your Catholic faith. You want to show up well for your children and relationships, and rediscover a sense of purpose in a life that looks different from the one you planned.
Maybe you don't know exactly what you want yet. You just know you're ready to stop circling the same questions alone. That's what a Clarity Session is for.
BEFORE YOU REACH OUT
Is This Right For Me?
Coaching for women rediscovering purpose after divorce, which may include pursuing an annulment.
A space to think out loud about your decisions, so you can hear more clearly what’s God’s peace and what’s your own noise.
Support from someone with lived experience and a track record of helping women find clarity.
This is
This isn’t
Therapy or trauma processing, that work belongs with a licensed mental health professional.
Spiritual direction or canon law advice, that’s work for your priest, canon lawyer or spiritual director.
Crises care or intervention, if you are in crises, please reach out to a licensed provider or crisis line.
Coaching is not a substitute for therapy, legal counsel, medical care or spiritual direction,
but it does complement those supports.
What Coaching Looks Like With Me
Coaching is non-directive. I won't tell you what to do, and I won't make decisions for you. That’s not my role, and it never was Jesus’s either. Again and again in the Gospels, He asks the question first. “What do you want me to do for you?” (Mark 10:51). He asks Bartimaeus, a blind man who could have simply been healed without ever being asked. Jesus wanted him to name his own desire.
That’s the model of our work together. I’ll sit in the thinking with you. We’ll get honest about what you actually want, become aware of what matters most, name the values worth holding onto, and look clearly at what’s standing in the way, so together we can find your next step.
Because I've lived a version of this myself, I'm also able to share from experience, mine or another woman's, for you to consider, never as the answer, but as something that's proven fruitful along the way.
Sessions are done by phone, not video, somewhere quiet, in a space that feels comfortable and supported. It's confidential, and if you're open to it, prayer together is welcome too, whatever feels right for you. Most women start with a Clarity Session. Those who already know they want ongoing support apply for Foundation, a deeper, six-month coaching relationship.
From One Woman To Another
There's a space between what was and what's next. It's called liminal space, and it can show up through the unraveling of a marriage, the wilderness of divorce or the dawning of a new life you didn’t expect.
Most of us don’t get married expecting divorce, so there’s no playbook for what comes next. It’s natural to want to hurry through the in between. I understand that so well and would be the first to say there is joy to be found in this season too.
Not after you’ve healed (spoiler alert: we’re healing all the way to heaven) or figured everything out, but right here, in ordinary days, in your faith, in the people who love you, and in the life still unfolding in front of you.
That’s where I come in.
I’m a certified and experienced life coach who has walked this road with women for years, and I’d be glad to walk alongside you. My faith shapes how I live and how I coach.
Want to know more? Read my story here. Or let’s connect.
Click below to send a message or book a free call, whatever you are comfortable with.
What People Are Saying
“A dear friend introduced me to Andy's work while I was in the early stages of divorce after a long, painful season in a destructive marriage. From the beginning, Andy created a space where I felt safe, seen, and spiritually supported. One coaching session in particular stands out: through her thoughtful questions and support, I found the clarity and courage to set a boundary that protected my peace. That moment was a real turning point for me. Andy's guidance was a steadying force in a season of upheaval. I'm so grateful for the way she weaves together deep faith, practical insight, and lived experience to walk with women like me.”
— Morgan S.“I love Andy so much! What I can make so confusing and hard, she is able to help me discern a clear path through. Especially when it comes to confidently communicating with my former spouse around co-parent-ing conversations. Her leadership in faith and trust in God's providence is such a gift.”
— Laurawhere to start
Not sure where to start? Let’s talk. Click here to send a message or book a free call with Andy.
FAITHFUL & FREE
Come for the conversation.
Stay for the coffee.
Faithful & Free is where I write, talk, and gather with women about moving forward with greater freedom, joy and purpose, while keeping the faith and fully living the life in front of us.
We’ll talk boundaries and relationships, divorce, annulment and dating, faith, family and all the messy, meaningful parts along the way.
Subscribe for free to read along, join live classes, and stay in the conversation.
Paid members get Coffee & Conversation, a monthly live Q&A with me, plus occasional member-only resources.
$8/month or $72/year
You might be wondering…..
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One of the great things about coaching is that it's flexible and built entirely around you, no diagnosis required, no insurance company involved in your care, and no paperwork standing between you and getting support. Coaching isn't billed through insurance, but a payment plan is available for ongoing coaching work.
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That's the great thing, I can work with anyone, anywhere. Sessions are held by phone or Zoom using audio only, so location isn't a barrier. I've had the privilege of working with women in Lincoln and out of state as well.
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Yes, everything you share stays between us, with the exception of mandatory reporting requirements under the law.
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There are a few easy ways. Many women start by listening to a few podcast episodes first, a low-pressure way to get familiar with me before we ever speak. (I often hear “I felt safe with you” from that alone.) A Clarity Session also makes a meaningful gift; some family members purchase one for a loved one to give her that experience of being supported. And if she’d rather just talk it through first, I’m always happy to hop on a quick call, no pressure, just a conversation to see if it’s a good fit.